SIBLINGS and SCRIBBLINGS

Looks like my brain is getting rusted.So it is high time that I try giving it some work. I am wondering which topic could probably be humorous? After so much consideration I am planning to post something about relationships. So which of it could probably fit in at the current scenario?

1. Mother & Son and Father & daughter combination never fails. It is scientifically proved I suppose.But, I am not confident of its place of origin :)
2. Moving on to girl friend/boy friend relationship I am supposing that it would be filled with expectations. Hence it can prove to be a challenging aspect of life.
3.Coming up next... SIBLINGS!! wow.. This is one of the most interesting relationship one can have.

Hence I decided I would ask people about how they felt about this special relationship. Here we also need to discuss on the so called "one man army" rather the single born kids.

My question was the same to two people belonging to the "single kids" category. How does it feel being alone at home?

A: "Positive side is that there will be no comparisons at all at home. you can own everything at home like a king else you have to share.. parents may sometimes go with the younger kid"
( OK!! Now that sounds like a little possessiveness!! A's vision... no complaints)
So I ask A... How about the negative aspect now? A tells me...

A: Hmmm... You don't have anybody to SHARE your worries and stuff... ( The same soul that said that It does not like sharing things at home :P So this soul does not like the materialistic sharing... but misses the sharing of emotions)

Interesting!! Again nothing so crib about!!

I ask the same question to B.
B: I liked being alone when I was young... But as years passed... All my cousins had siblings with whom they could share/care/fight and they always had this special bond between them. I felt that I was left alone. (Pretty much understandable)

B: You are provided with more facilities... and you can lead a comfortable life ( Yet again... An inclination towards materialistic pleasure)

B: I used to be a loner... an introvert... most single born kids are loners.. (ya! now that is not good news)

All right!! Moving on to the buggers with siblings! Personally speaking I feel that my sibling is the best gift that my parents could have ever given to me. Not that we have always been nice to each other... But, we still don't mind sharing every grain of rice earned. So I ask two others who belong to this Sister-Brother "Siblingship"

How does it feel having a sister/brother?

C: It feels great... My only wish on sibling is older brother ( The blogger completely agrees with C)
In fact there have been many cases where most number of gals have always wanted to have an older bother... sorry brother :P

D tells me... "mmm... It feels great" (end of the conversation... a reply in 3 words... That defines it all)

It so happens that an older brother knows his sister inside out.. but at times they can turn secretive. Possibly because they feel that the younger one is too young to understand his problem. Still the blogger strongly believes that there must be a reason behind all that.

Coming to the brother-brother relationship... I asked one of my craziest buddy... He says "If we have a good rapport we can share anything and everything between us... can face anything together boldly...irukara ayogya tanam laam asaalt ah pannitu onnumey pannada maari effect ah podalam.. appo appo yedavdu nalladum pannalam.. CAN LEARN MANY THINGS LIKE THAT OF CURRENT WORLD AFFAIRS" (nambittom :P) lol... On the negative side he says people might compare you with your sibling and at the end of it the one who is less successful may develope inferiority complex... and again when the rapport is not good there is always a problem of not sharing things/feelings. (Point to be noted)

Finally the sister-sister relationship... Probably I prefer this the least... Ask me the reason!! I don't know... Intimacy may be high but on the whole.. there always is a need for a guide/mentor for the younger one which I am not very sure how the elder sister can handle. Yet again, opinions can always differ and individuals definitely differ.

Please bear with the blogger for she has tried to scribble in something for giving work to her brain.

This blog topic does not mean to offend anybody and is truly the opinions taken from different people belonging to totally different back grounds.

Sibling off,
Bugs